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Debunking 5 Common Myths About Mediation and Revealing the Truth Behind Them
Mediation often gets misunderstood. Many people hesitate to try it because of myths that paint it as ineffective, biased, or complicated. These misconceptions can prevent individuals and organizations from discovering how mediation can resolve conflicts peacefully and constructively. Drawing from the principles and experience shared by In Control Coaching and Mediation, this post clears up five common myths about mediation and explains the truth behind them. Myth 1: Mediation

Martha Ware
3 days ago3 min read


Comprehensive Growth Through Mediation and Coaching: Growth Mediation Strategies for Lasting Change
When I first encountered the powerful combination of mediation and coaching, I realized how transformative this blend could be for anyone seeking meaningful growth. Whether you’re navigating workplace conflicts, family disagreements, or personal challenges, these tools offer a path to clarity, resolution, and empowerment. Today, I want to share with you how growth mediation strategies can unlock your potential and help you move forward with confidence. Understanding Growth M

Martha Ware
Jan 124 min read


Achieving Balance with Coaching and Mediation: Strategies for Life Balance
Finding balance in life can sometimes feel like trying to walk a tightrope in a gusty wind. You want to move forward, but the challenges of conflict, stress, and uncertainty pull you in different directions. I’ve been there, and I know how overwhelming it can be. That’s why I’m passionate about sharing how coaching and mediation can be powerful tools to help you regain your footing and move toward a more harmonious life. Whether you’re navigating workplace tensions, family di

Martha Ware
Dec 29, 20254 min read


Mediation Is a Powerful Solution for Small Claims
When people think about resolving small claims—such as property damage, minor contract disputes, or neighborly disagreements—they often imagine courtrooms, long waits, and a lot of stress. But there’s a better, faster, and more collaborative way to handle these situations: mediation . Mediation is one of the most effective tools for resolving small claims disputes because it focuses on communication, cooperation, and creative problem-solving. And unlike court, where a judge m

Martha Ware
Dec 9, 20253 min read


The Role of Active Listening: A Skill That Transforms Relationships
We often think communication is all about what we say — the words we choose, the points we make, the stories we tell. But here’s the truth: one of the most powerful communication skills isn’t speaking at all — it’s listening , and not just any kind of listening — active listening . Active listening is the art of being fully present in a conversation — not planning your next response, not half-checking your phone, not waiting for your turn to speak — but genuinely tuning into

Martha Ware
Nov 6, 20253 min read


The Emotional Side of Mediation: Tools to Stay Grounded in Conflict
Let's be real—conflict is emotional. You can walk into a mediation with the best intentions, a stack of notes, and a calm mindset, and...

Martha Ware
Sep 24, 20253 min read


5 Communication Tools That Work in Both Mediation and Daily Life
Good communication can sometimes feel like a superpower, don’t you think? Whether you’re trying to smooth things over with a coworker,...

Martha Ware
Sep 11, 20254 min read


How Mediation Puts You in Control of the Outcome (Unlike Court)
Let’s be real—conflict isn’t fun. Whether it’s at work, in your family, or with someone else important in your life, the idea of dragging...

Martha Ware
Sep 4, 20252 min read


Fostering Harmony with Workplace Mediation: Turning “Uh-Oh” Moments into “Aha!” Moments
Workplaces are like big, bustling families. They’re full of personalities, opinions, quirks, and—let’s be honest—occasional friction....

Martha Ware
Aug 11, 20252 min read


Coaching Isn’t Just for Burnouts—It’s for Bold Moves
And why it's not just for people in crisis mode Life is a beautiful, unpredictable ride. One day you're cruising along, feeling pretty...

Martha Ware
Aug 6, 20253 min read


Discover the Power of Life Coaching
Life can feel like a winding road with unexpected turns, bumps, and sometimes, a fog that clouds your vision. I've been there too,...

Martha Ware
Jul 29, 20254 min read


How Coaching and Mediation Help You Grow—Personally and Professionally
Let's be honest—life doesn't always go as planned. Careers shift, relationships change, and sometimes, we wake up realizing the version...

Martha Ware
Jul 14, 20252 min read


Three Key Factors for a Successful Mediation
Mediation is a voluntary, impartial, and empowering process in which individuals involved in a dispute maintain control of the outcome....

Martha Ware
Apr 8, 20253 min read


Challenges and Opportunities of Cultural Differences in Workplace Mediation:
Mediation plays a vital role in resolving conflicts and nurturing a positive work environment in today's increasingly diverse workplaces....

Martha Ware
Mar 17, 20253 min read


Mediation, a Safe Space to Resolve Discrimination Conflicts in the Workplace
Workplace mediation benefits all parties involved because it fosters open communication, promotes fairness, and helps maintain a positive...

Martha Ware
Feb 21, 20253 min read


Eight Reasons to Use Mediation in the Workplace
Using mediation in the workplace is an effective way to resolve conflicts, improve communication, and enhance overall team dynamics. It...

Martha Ware
Feb 7, 20255 min read


The Power of Mediation: Personal Growth, Team Building, and Relationships
Mediation isn't just a tool for resolving disputes—it's a transformative practice that fosters personal growth, strengthens...

Martha Ware
Jan 10, 20253 min read


Mediation: The Key to Improving Family Relationships and Resolving Conflict
Family dynamics can be complicated, to say the least. Whether it's parents and children who can't seem to understand each other, in-laws...

Martha Ware
Dec 16, 20243 min read


Bridging Work Style Differences with Workplace Mediation
Workplaces are melting pots of diverse personalities, experiences, and work styles. Work styles might vary depending on personality,...

Martha Ware
Nov 29, 20243 min read


Navigating Verbal Abuse at Work: Finding Common Ground Through Mediation
Let's be real—dealing with verbal abuse at work is tough. Whether coming from a peer or a supervisor, repeated insults or criticism can...

Martha Ware
Nov 12, 20242 min read
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